A number of years back, I
attended a Greek Orthodox Church as a guest of a friend. This was a new
experience, as I had only been to Catholic Churches. I knew it would be a
different experience, but I wanted to see what other religions were like. The
first thing I noticed was how beautiful and unique the outside of the church was
designed. I kept staring at the church as I was awestruck by the sheer beauty.
Once we entered the church, I
kept looking around. I did not know how to proceed into the church and felt a
little apprehensive. Again, the art was breathtaking and the altar was
stunning. I did not know whether to stand, sit, or genuflect as I was entering
the pew. I kept glancing around me to see what other people were doing. This is
when I really started to feel uncomfortable and realized that I was the
“other.”
Since the service was in Greek,
I could not follow the sermon and my eyes began to wander around the church. I
noticed that I was staring at “other” people to try to see what I should be
doing. I noticed that they did the sign of the cross a little different from the
way I was used to. The first thought that came to my mind was that “they” were
doing it wrong. It was perplexing to me. I then realized I was observing all the
rituals of the Greek Orthodox religion and trying to compare it to the Catholic
rituals I was used to. The comparing of the two separate religions was how I was
“otherizing” the people in the church. I realized the best action I could take
was to observe and appreciate a different religious culture and gain a better
understanding of what different religions have to offer.